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Monday, April 30, 2012
4100 Belford Rd.
Holly, Michigan, United States
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15020 Hampton
Grosse Pointe Park, Michigan, United States
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Phil Hodgman posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Brian wasn't the most talented basketball player on our intramural team at Georgetown, but damn it if he wasn't the most competetive. I remember him as a feisty guy who always put forth his best effort. He wanted to beat you (basketball and golf) but was always gracious win or lose. Brian was a guy just full of life, with a good sense of humor - including laughing at himself when the occasion merited it.
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Herlinda Olivo posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 8, 2012
To Brian's wife, Sandy, and his family I had the pleasure of getting to know Brian over the past 5 months. As a new employee to the Fiduciary Unit, I found him to be very helpful whenever I went to him for advice. Ill always remember his quick wit and his morning greetings to me in Spanish, which is my native language. I enjoyed our exchanges as they were wonderful refreshers for me. We were blessed with Brians presence. Please know that he was appreciated and loved and will be greatly missed. Accept my condolences and thoughts for you and your family.
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Larry and Heather Gage posted a condolence
Monday, May 7, 2012
Sorry for your loss, Frank and Maureen. Will keep you in our prayers.
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Karen Alexander posted a condolence
Monday, May 7, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the family. With heartfelt love and prayers. Karen
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Fran Mumma posted a condolence
Sunday, May 6, 2012
So sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I have many fond memories of all the DeFour's. With sympathy,
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Gary & Ann Hockenberry posted a condolence
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Dear Sandy, Stephanie & Austin, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories comfort you during this time of sorrow. We were saddened to hear of Bryan's passing. We'll always remember our time together at Hoffmaster State Park. Those are some wonderful memories.
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Gary & Ann Hockenberry posted a condolence
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Dear Sandy, Stephanie & Austin, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories comfort you during this time of sorrow. We were saddened to hear of Brian's passing. We'll always remember our time together at Hoffmaster State Park. Those are some wonderful memories.
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Mary Robbins posted a condolence
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Sandy and all the family, please accept my sincerest sympathy. Ive been with you in thought and prayer for weeks now. May God bless all of you and give you the peace only He can bestow.
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Joann Wurm posted a condolence
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Dearest,Loving Sandy, During this painful time of your life, just don't let go of the hand of God.He will carry you thru the love of all your friends. Brian has gone to a safer happier place and has no more suffering..He will be missed but I will never forget the light in his eye when he looked at you..He showed his love for you in that sparkle...my prayers, Joann
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Sheri Weinstein posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2012
Sandy, my thoughts and prayers are with you. It has been my pleasure knowing you both, and Brian will always be alive in my heart. Sincerely, Sheri Weinstein, MD
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Monica Quinn posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2012
In March, on one of my hospital visits with Brian, he shared with me the fact that on Nov, 3rd 2002 he got a hole in one. For a golfer, it doesn't get any better. What a life! Great Marriage, Brilliant career, three amazing daughters, loving grandkids, loyal family, true friends, steady faith, lucky winner, etc. What a ride! I plan to keep in close touch with Brian's spirit as we support Sandy in her next chapter. You've been a great brother in recovery Bri ! Love, Moni
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Vicki Obergefell posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2012
I had the pleasure of getting to know Brian when he came to work at the VA. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Please accept my condolences and thoughts for you and your family.
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Jacqueline Cornillie posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2012
Chuck and I were sorry to read of Brian's death. My parents - George and Angie DeClerk were good friends of the DeFour family.. Blessing to the family. Jackie DeClerk Cornillie
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Bonita Cowan-Tucker posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2012
To Brian's wife Sandy, and family. It has been great working at the Department of Veterans Affairs along with Brian as Legal Instruments Examiners in Fiduciary. Brian preceded me in Fiduciary by six months, and as a new employee, I found him to be very helpful when I went to him for advice regarding handling a case. Ill always remember him his quick wit and ability to lighten up some challenging moments in Fiduciary. He shared his interesting stories about his travels and his love for golf. His Spanish was much better than mine. From time to time he would begin an exchange of conversation in Spanish that would make for a wonderful refresher for me. He was warm and approachable and he added positive energy to Fiduciary. God blessed us with Brians presence. Please know that he was appreciated and loved and he will be missed.
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Joe Versical Jr. posted a condolence
Friday, May 4, 2012
I'm very sorry to hear this news. I's been a long time but I will always remember him as a first class guy. Another Belgian brother who left us too soon. Deepest sympathies to the family and all who were close to Brian. Joe Versical JR.
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Regina (Valpredo) Debski posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
You and your family are in my heart. Brian had such a kind loving heart. His smile & spirit will be missed. Love you Sandy Regina
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Richard Frederick posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Our deepest sympathy for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Rich and Pam Frederick (Brian's cousin)
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Pete Roussos posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Hard to say Ive met a more caring and humble man than Mr. Defour. Very well traveled with a great sense of humor. He always displayed a pleasant disposition and it was a privilege to have known him in the short time I did. His perma-smile will be missed at the VA. My thoughts and prayers go out to his loved ones in these trying times.
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David W. Wall posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Brian was my friend and golfing buddy. I am devastated at his loss but know that his spirit will live on in all of us who knew him and loved him. My blessings to all his family. He was a man.
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Miriam Smith posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
To the family of Brian DeFour, it was with great pleasure to have work with Brian. Every time that I went into the office during lunch, he would always talk about the lunch he wife made for him. He ate a lot of chicken. He always had that good old fashion candy that I love wine candies. Family remember take one day at time. My continued prayers are with you.
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Marcia Corbett posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
All who knew Brian loved him. He had a wonderful wit and it was a privilege to know him. We will miss him terribly here in Sarasota. All my love to Sandy and Brian's family.
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Denise lambert posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Sandy sorry for your loss I wont be there for thats the same day of my brothers Garrins service,i know your pain
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Pauline Littles posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
To the DeFour Family, may God continue to comfort and keep you. I looked forward everyday to singing and dancing with Brian. He never knew the words or the right moves but this was our morning ritual. Brian knew how to make you laugh. The warm smile, the love and humbleness he showed will never be forgotten. My prayer will always be with you.
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Cheryle Daniel posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
San, Steph, Chris and Ralph, In the past weeks that we muddled through the details and technicalities of dying and preparing for the celebration of Brians life, I became part of the DeFour Family. I shared your worry, sorrow, joy, memories and yes...laughter oh, and food! I have many wonder memories of Brian-chasing lizards with Claire and Shelby, fishing with Kelly and hanging with me and Sandy on the beach here in FL. Now I have new memories of time with his daughters and brother (and their families). Thank you for those! Chris, celebrate that last gift your Dad gave you! My thoughts and prayers will be with you, especially Friday. Love you all, Sandy's sis
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John E Thompson Jr posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
I did not know Brian for a long time, I started working at Detroit Regional Office 0811, however Brian was instrument in making feel at home, with our dicussions in the break room, Mr.DeFour was a brillant, but humble man. He will be missed by many
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Cathy Somers posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
To Brian's Family I was so sad to learn of Brian's passing. He was a good friend to my brother Louie, and I only met him once when he came to introduce himself to me - we worked in the same building. He was such a nice man and I was very impressed by how kind he was. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Cathy
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Cathy K. French posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
My thoughts and prayer are with you and your family.
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VA Employee posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Brian was the nicest person and most intelligent person I have ever known. Truly. He will be sorely missed. God - please bless the family.
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Rich and Leigh Ann Rodriguez posted a condolence
Thursday, May 3, 2012
May your loving memories carry you through the tough times. Sandy, we have known Cheryl and Kelly for so long and it is so wonderful to get to know your daughter Kim and your grandsons. In such a strange way we are connected. You are blessed to have your family surrounding you. Please know that you and Brian are and were in many peoples thoughts, prayers and hearts. God Bless your Brian, may he rest in peace.
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Jodi & Scott Bryan posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
We're gonna miss ya, Brian! Always a great time was had with you on the golf course. Our condolences to Sandy and the rest of the family...we have lost a very kind man.
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Lillian posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Oh Sandy... My heart bleeds for you.... I know there are no real words that can take away the pain you are feeling right now. Just know that you are in my heart and prayers and I can relate to what you are going through. One so dear to our heart where there is no understanding why they are gone and life just seems so empty, but that pain lessens, but I can say it doesn't really go, but becomes more managable. I love you and hope that you know if you need to talk or anything, just let me know. XOXO
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Jennie Yount posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Stephanie and Austin, our love is with now and always. Jennie, Logan and Lucas
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Jennie Yount posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Stephanie and Austin, our love is with you now and always. Jennie, Logan and Lucas
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Marie Burley posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
To the family of Brian DeFour If more people displayed the fruit of the SPIRIT and a love of humanity such as Brian did, the world we live in would be a better place. Mrs. DeFour Know that you are in my prayers and I also share in your grief. May you find strength in our GOD, and comfort through the expressions of love among your friends. Continue to stand on the promises of GOD. A dear friend of Brian's. Marie BurleyKitch Law FirmDet, Mi
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Claudia Eaton posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
I am so vey sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
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Paula posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
To my dearest friend Sandy, and all members of Brian and Sandy's family, Brian will be missed dearly ,his children and grandchildren met so much to him ,he had a ability to let you know that he adored you and I saw the love he had in his heart those days before his passing, he was a husband among the best of the best, a father among fathers, I will always cherish the fact he was in my life , Thank you Brian , GO TIGERS!!!!!
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Mary Hanser posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Blessings to you and your family, Sandy. God will carry you. Only Love!
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Sandy posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Sandy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I wish I had known the man that made you so very happy throughout your life. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless. Love, Sandy
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Lisa Bradley posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
May your family find comfort in sharing the joys of Brian's life and all the people he has touched. God bless you.
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Gregg and Silvia Corella posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Brian, we were touched by your kindness, your friendship and your wacky sense of humor. Our visits with you and Sandy in Sarasota and Michigan were always happy ones. We will think of you often and we'll keep a loving eye on Sandy for you.
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Frank and Maureen DeFour Neuhaus posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Being Brian's sister has been a wonderful gift. So many stories to tell, and memories of good times. His personality was there even near the end of life here on earth. When we spoke on the phone over the years, he always ended the conversation with OK honey, I love you. What a loving person he was.
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Margie Marr posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
My deepest sympathy to you, Sandy and to the rest of Brian's family. He will be so missed by so many!
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LaShawn Carr posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Brian will be truly missed, such a very nice gentlemen. Our prayers are with the family. Co-worker from Veterans Administration
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Pamela Lesemann posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with Sandy and all of Brian's family.
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Margaret Drew posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
My prayers and thoughts be with Brians wife and family members. I loved him here at the VA and I am going to really miss him.
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Robin Gary posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
To the family of Brian Defour. May the God of heaven above comfort you and keep you strong throughout this trial. Please know you are in my prayers. Brian and I met a little over a year ago, when I was tranferred to the 12th flr of the Department of Veterans Affairs Post team. Brian and I became fast buddies. He never failed to make me laugh. He would often speak a little french to me. How we would laugh. I shall miss him dearly. I pray in someway I was able to make him laugh also. I know he is now in heaven making everyone there smile and laugh as his warm personality was know to do.--rlg
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Bobbie Johnson posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Brian will truly be missed. God sent his an angel to watch over us. He kept us smiling every day. We know he loved his wife and family. May God bless you and your family and remember the good times along with the bad, and God will see you through this. Love your family in FiduciaryVARO Detroit, MI
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Anthony Malloy posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Brian was an intelligent and loving soul and he will truly be missed at the VA. I never saw a day that Brian was down and his spirit always lifted mine. To his wife and family, may God bless you in your hour of need.
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Elaine Beck posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
I am very sorry for your loss. I enjoyed talking with Brian about books as we both enjoyed reading some of the same novels. I thought he was a nice person and always had a smile and a kind word whenever I would see him in the building. May God bless your family and give you strength.
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Dimeka Taylor posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Brian was a great guy full of life and always had kind words to share. Its wierd not seeing you everyday. RIP
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Donna Voytush posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
You will always be remembered in my prayers and my heart.
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Cyndie & John Jarvis posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 2, 2012
Oh Sweet Sandy. You were and are such a part of my recovery and u know how much I loveed Brian. He was so huggable and u two shared something so rare and beautiful. I love u babe and Im always there for you. Namaste xo
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Carrie Geiger posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
My love and prayers are with Brian, Sandy and their families at this difficult time.
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Kenya (Maxey) Swanson posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Patti Leto Cote posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
My deepest sympathy to Brian's family and his wonderful wife, Sandy. Brian's daughter, Stephanie, and my daughter, Laura, are best friends. I have known Brian's family for years. He touched our lives in many ways. I will never forget when Brian invited Laura to go with himself and Stephanie to the DaddyDaughter Dance at Our Lady Star of the Sea. Such a wonderful gesture. Rest in peace, Dear Brian. You will surely be missed.
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Janet Baker posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
To know Brian was to love him. I had that privilege for the last decade. His intelligence, stories, wit and kindness made him unique in this world. The last time I spoke with him was about his beloved wife Sandy's medical troubles. He made me laugh the way he briefed me on the situation. My concern went away because I knew he was there taking care of her. He loved her very much. I got to see that and be a part of their lives in Florida. My sympathy to his entire family for this huge loss.
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Allyn Preusse posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Sandy, We are so sorry for your loss.Brian was a great friend to us and will be greatly missed.It was a privilage just to know him. Allyn and Pat
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Kimberly posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
So sorry for your loss Sandy. Much love to you and all your family during this time. Sincerely-Kimberly
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Ken Regalado posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Will miss our 'once a camping trip' getaways to the golf course and complaining about Leyland's latest blunder, Papa B. RIP.
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Molly Sullivan Lamarche posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Dear Christine and Stephanie, I am so very sorry about your Dad. I have so many memories of him from our high school days. Know that you are in my prayers as you heal from this loss. Molly Sullivan (Lamarche)
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Dave Pikka posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
I had the privilege and honor of working with Brian over the last couple of years at the VA. What a prince of a man, always offered a helping hand and a kind word. He will be sorely missed.
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Rebecca Prozzo posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
I am so very sorry to hear Brian has passed. He was one of the kindest men I have ever had the honor of knowing. My heart is with Sandy and the family. I will miss him so.
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Teri Lawer posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Dear Sandy and Family, I am so sorry for your great loss. Praying that God will give you comfort and peace during this very difficult time. Love, Teri
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Anne Maters posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Brian was such a sweet, gentle soul with an ever ready smile for everyone. He touched so many people in his lifetime. He will be greatly missed my all who knew him. Sandy, you were well loved by Brian and you will continue to be well loved by all of your friends. Rest in peace, Brian. God's peace be with you, Sandy.
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Linda Ann Remley posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Once having met Brian, one could never forget him! His charm, warmth and great intelligence easily and quickly became evident. As a colleague for such a brief time, I appreciated how much brighter the days were when Brian was in the office. I am so sorry that he passed so young and your family will be in my prayers. May God bless and keep you!
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S. Dudley Carson posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Dear Sandy, Your in my thoughts and prayers at this time of your loss. Brian was a wonderful man, friend and someone we could all count on and look upto. I know I speak for many when I say We miss you and wish you were here with us now. I know God is with you and Brian now and always Sandy. God Bless and take good care. Your Friend Dudley.
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Katherine Ward posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
Brian will sure be missed. To Sandy and the family...I am so sorry for your great loss. To Brian...!Vaya con Dios, mi hermano!
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Kristen Angelico posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 1, 2012
To the DeFour Family, I am sorry for the loss of Brian. You are in my thoughts and prayers-especially you Michelle!
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Pete Thomas posted a condolence
Monday, April 30, 2012
I never personally met Brian; I knew him from our shared love of the Detroit Tigers, and we conversed on the Tigers chat Forum. I was always impressed how Brian conducted himself with class, kindness and a keen sense of humor. Terribly sorry to his family and friends for your loss.
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Patrick OKennedy posted a condolence
Monday, April 30, 2012
Brian was a gentleman and a good Tiger fan. He and his family will be in our thoughts and prayers. May he rest in peace.
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Frank Redmond posted a condolence
Monday, April 30, 2012
Will miss your insights and humor on Tiger Talk my friend Salty Dog
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